Be Yourself, Stop Begging And Start Manifesting!
But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:
- It seems to work for other people, but I just cant get it right.
- Im frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I cant. Whats the trick?
- Why am I having so much trouble?
- I think the universe is against me.
- Im trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!
But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When youre frustrated, its hard to stay positive. And its especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen in Mumbai.
And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? Thats right you start attracting negative things in to your life.
So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?
Well, heres three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start manifesting like a pro.
1. Allow Yourself To Receive
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer cant even give an answer, right?
Well, its the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe which is trying to respond cant give you a single thing because youre not allowing yourself to receive!
So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: Its because youre running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).
Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.
2. Be Patient With Yourself
Receiving takes time.
Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because theyve decided that if its not working by now, its never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources, the results will come faster.
This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also cant bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature. Youll incinerate those cookies to ashes!
In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.
So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.
3. Support and Educate Yourself
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to look up to.
Many people give up because they think that The Secret is the be all and end all solution. Well, its NOT. The Secret is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.
Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesnt work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch The Secret 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but youre still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).
So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.
I Accept People As They Are
I dont expect people to be a mirror image of me because of the wonderful variety the world has to offer. Since I know I dont have to agree with everyone or be close friends with each person I meet, this knowledge allows me to enjoy people for who they are.
Learning to understand the value of diversity is important to me. Looking at how I am different from others helps me realize how unique and special I am. I also like to discover the extraordinary talents and abilities of others.
I am proud of my open and accepting behavior. Being open has brought so much goodness into my life.
My life is enriched by diversity. I value new relationships and accept people as they are.
Nurturing new relationships gives me perspective and appreciation for the views of others. I can learn from people who have had experiences that are different from my own. They can teach me valuable lessons that I have not learned from my own life experiences.
Because I want people to fully accept me for who I am, I show others that same respect. I allow people to be proud of the uniqueness they bring to the world. The world is a much more exciting place because we are all so different.
Enjoying the variety of the world brings me true happiness. I relish the differences my Creator so wisely brought into the world and I am so thankful to be part of this incredible diversity.
Self-Reflection Questions:
- Do I make an effort to accept people as they are?
- How has someone influenced my thoughts or actions in a positive way?
- I want people to fully accept me for who I am. Do I also show others the same respect?
I Allow Myself To Simply Be Me
I may be a work-in-progress, but I keep myself continually open to the smoothing and shaping hands of my Maker. I choose not to waste time worrying about what could be, if I were someone else, because I am happy being me.
I believe that there is plan for my life. I may not be able to see it all clearly right now, and thats okay. I dont have to be able to see every step I need to take (or why I need to take it). I simply focus on developing the skills and talents instilled within me from the beginning. As I do so, my purpose becomes clearer, one step at a time.
Because I am confident in my purpose, I am able to relax and enjoy the success of others without feeling the need to compete. I let go of the tendency to glorify other peoples successes and to view them as more important than my own. Some may be more glittery and noticeable than my own, but they are no more important.
I want to thrive in my own life. This means that I must let go of the idea that I can, by sheer effort or willpower, fulfill someone elses purpose. Instead, I focus on my own path, knowing that it, too, is important. After all, I am the only one suitably equipped with my talents, personality, and circumstances to fulfill my purpose.
Self-Reflection Questions:
- Am I trying to fulfill my own purpose or someone elses?
- Am I able to be happy for others without feeling the need to compete?
- Do I recognize the value of my own set of talents and circumstances?
References:
Mindzoom Affirmations Subliminal Software
https://plus.google.com/111031150115187630912/posts/dqZy9E1QUB5
Affirmations Affirmalife Wealth Accelerator Masterclass
https://plus.google.com/111031150115187630912/posts/ajyS992ZiVq
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